BARGAINING RELATIONSHIP

It was from childhood all people take part in home town celebrations. During childhood days we were in our home town. Till I complete my preschool, I and my sister along with my parents were in town. It was a joined family were with all our cousins, uncle and aunt. During that time my father was leading the village with a team of companians. We know well every celebration ends with clarification of arguments and complaints. As, yet hearing on his leadership with rights and wrongs. Let it be. In other side, though new team takes a quality of leadership came to learn that complaints won't off whoever being in that position. At the same time, could hear respectful concern on his leadership quality. Ever truth is cannot avoid both the right and wrong criticism from people. Later years continued in another town where we shifted in family. Every year relatives who were members in celebration team use to visit our home to get contribution. As we donate respect maintains among the membership. where elders have noticed it or not, younger generation had denoted their attitude. Its a habitual action among them during festival season. The respect from a group of people whowhere relatives too in the home town explores in the time of festival season. Have noted those expression of respect according to the contribution amount. Years passed on taught me the relationship and its respectful act to one. When we were able to give high amount like 10,000 to 20,000 and above the hospitality could found difference than less donation. From deity dharshan, providing lunch and in end with prasad distribution were variant among people which they show as per they receive receipt. Where in between years we were suffering hardly and was not able to contribute a big amount. There we found the difference of response from that team's side. It also made them not to even treat respectfully, exampling as said above from lunch to prasad distribution. This society is also under the same category of maintaining habitual act like smile, interact and invite to ceremonies are getting variant among people. It's actually according to our status which means the ability is assessed by money and status in the public living. The society has changed its sight as well as its status under people's bank hold. In other hand it's decided by assessing one's personality and show off in the society where people fail to assess their personal balance else they decide as per dressing and life style which they maintain. I still remember, when my family under some struggle it happened to seek a help from one of my uncle. In return he avoid supporting and expressed complaining my parents. But it had not one time or twice, it continued so many times from all the relatives which I and my family members learned to avoid seeking someone to stand with us when we find hards. All those situaitons which we had ran behind struggles had lessoned us real face of relatives and friends. But I thank God for such situations in our life because today we are not under anybody's hold or shoudler. Sometimes it happen to think and woe but still ready to walk alone in taking all the criticism and avoidance of people in society. All over had noticed such avoiders had knocked us for their inability where we donot want to avoid them because we donot expect them to face the same hards which we faced once. Dear readers, when you find some one seek you for any support, kindly guide them nor avoid. We know very well that we cannot travel with somebody for long term. But we can assure that our guidance might stand with them in long term, Short or long just give ears to encourage one and to a calculate status. Money may today lifts you but the same money will question you reasons complaining. Think before express and avoid. Hope merits your thoughts to review the needers. Nowadays ceremonies are under countable individuals due to pandemic. Its a great deal god playing with. Stop show off and live life lively. Stay motivating.