POLITENESS TEST

Topic might have made my readers to know, what is it saying? Actually, I was thinking past two days about our attitude to the family members and other people. Definitely, it is varying when notice our behaviour. Before this long settling with family members, that is during work busy before the pandemic, which was very less time duration at home people and long term with colleagues. But it is vice versa now due to Covid. It means, long time with family along work from home notion. Definitely, difficult time to manage both from home. Cause behind the survival, need to balance the situations. As the long days at home is making people to express all their frustration to the members, sometimes to children. Since April 2020, we are being in home because it's announced as lockdown due to Covid. Has continued with work from home, online classes and online purchase. This situation extended our journey by separating our family people in different places. We are suffering out of this separation and safety, which is only in case of work and buisness. However, we are asked to keep alert in infection and to care ourself to think on our own blood relations at home. Many are under economical survey. No other options are to recover out of this present cause until the cases get reduce. Only portrait is prayer and positive mind for us and for others. In other hand, we can motivate others to keep them strong mentally to hold on physically to take care of their old parents and children through a phone call. This media and gadgets were taken as unhealthy activity socially. Though lockdown controlled many against their regular process, this media and gadget are supporting part and in vast usage which is helping to know daily circumstance. Similarly it is a support in education and family attachment through online platforms. Families are happy and relaxed on their relatives by different apps in their mobile phones. Also it is supportive to consult their doctor who are under medication and in need of medicine. Both the side of positivity could be calculated through out these days. All along this procedure, we should think about our habitual act among our people. We know well that we are not under a heavy picturisation when parents or partner cross inbetween our any work during this time. What I wish to say is, Now most of us are in home with parents, husband/wife and children. Just in a recall, think that when at our work place, we would have crossed with few people who had jumbed over to our cabin at work time. There we had carried a smile and polite reply to that person. The same situation is happening nowadays at our home. In the place of the colleague, our parent or partner is crossing us to get a note. In office it was a simple over come where that person was to your cabin to leisure a minute. You too would have felt refreshed. But this time at home environment, it becomes an irritating while you get crossed with a family member. It has make us to shout and to scold them. Why not we sum up both the situation is equal and why its good mood in office and anxious at home? Another situation is to get a break inbetween the work, use to sit in canteen or in parking area at office. The same is compensated at home ringing to a friend or scrolling the phone. But here too, we missed to over come it by taking a ride to shop something what our family wants to be for our concern. Might be they expect to purchase vegetables or missed provision, it is truely to fulfill our favourite dish preparation. In that situation our face expresses narrow and the mouth murmurs the parent or partner easily face to face. We missed to think about their hard work for our health. Just take to think on the mother, one who serves the child, the father, one who moves out side for his kids to diet healthy, think about the grand parents who are inside four walls without any entertainment. We need to think about the safety of the elders. In this sense we have to make them rest in right time as well as it is important to check whether they are taking food and medicine properly. But for all these we donot have time. In the name of work, we are simply swiping our phone, chatting and speaking with friends, where it has leaded late night sleep and late wake up at morning. Controlling children away from the gadget is essential. Most of the parents are encouraging kids providing them games in mobile and computer. I request the parents to engage the kids in learning skills by seating along with them in a regular schedule which could be followed daily. It is a great chance of proceeding them an hour by the father, an another hour by the mother, next hour with the grand parents or siblings. It can be maintained with a clear time table from morning to night until to sleep. It helps the parents to run actively. All these may happen well any way in all homes. But we can take time to realise about the attitude that we are adopted nowdays towards our parents and other members at home is to be changed. It is not simply to change. Take in serious as must to change because we donot predict our end. Everyone is in unknown world of reasonless death. Though there are common death counts, it is varying in many other causes. Let be free to be kind and polite to others at home and outside. Let show love and care to all until we face the death which is countable even in our live. Think on at your each expression and emotion. Stay safe and stay healthy at your home.