Not all people with us will open up their thoughts and views. Else they have a habit of back bite. How far they try to control this habit, it explores difficult to calm down. Among few, it's a highly interested to speak back about others matters. As the childhood game ' passing the secret', people love to remodule the matter into a new story without knowing the truth behind it. Even the listeners are very much passionate into this type of third party discussion. Have not ever think on the habit of murmur. we use to murmur songs...... but at the same time we know very well that murmur is also an angry bird in us. Yes,,,,,, One of my friend, who was happened to move out of her family due to family issue. So, she stayed along with her parents. Because of mind struggles, she was fed on expressing her needs and thoughts to others. Made herself settle to live with what she had. Being a part in her parents role, she found a job and the days went well as she got a good diversion in her life which she maintained not to think on her past days. Hardly stated, as she was busy in work she didn't made her to think on her house hold support to her mother. Also, as happened to note whatever she did was wrong and mistake from her mother's side. You will definitely think, whether a mother thinks her daughter in such a way? But yes, it took place in my friend's state. She being with phone calls and diversion of interact with her friends who visited her home made a big issue among her parents. Once she understood her mother's dislike of her performance at home and being friendship with anybody made my friend to think on to loose her relationship with people whoever with her. It made even both the parents started showing their face to her always blaming her happiness and interest in chat with everyone whom she met and yet she meet. Here, the parents wants her to travel always under their ways and words. It was against to the parents revealed out by her hardships where she stopped speaking to them at home. It prolonged for days as go. Here, again it happened to find all the things she do was wrong. They defaulted her saying, she was irresepective. She wants to be controlled out this charged hards. She started to concentrate in her work always and not to involve her ears and eyes towards her home environment. Her clamness inside home, related her towards the words whispered by her parents about her. Otherthan hiding her attention towards their words she couldnot move out that house where she reasoned, 'Its my parents one who was speaking wrong on me. Then how could I manage the society?' So she planned to live as knowing the way what her parents expect her to do and not to involve her in other way. Though she mattered, nothing changed in her home and in parents attitude. She habited accepting her home environment as well as the outer world where it was a big boost of her uncovered life style. A day out with her father made her to reveal about the things what she managed lot in their misunderstanding. She came to know that father had nowhere mistaken her and his support of love and care was still nostalgic in her living manner. The present day is her happiness practised to accept only parents to undergo and not the love falsed on her is truth. Parents are always to take care and to live long only for their childen. Only children has to understand it is the more truth. Better parents also need to learn their child's wish and happiness which is not only with them. Otherthan it a child's own part of happiness too have to be accepted.....................think on dear parents...........
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