Birth of a girl signs the symbol of Goddess Lekshmi in Hindu families. Parents start to carry dream of their girl child in her every step and development. In some circumstance this alertness over crowds the parents sight and takes the development to secure and protect. Mostly it happens fly over due to influence. Consciously to keep shelter the child parent may happen to accept the influenced language and will part into feed and swallow. But it fails to study that the voice of surrounding is expecting an situation to defeat nor to lift. Black points are eye washed as white. Parent also miss to analyse because their main target is in the growth of their girl. I had an experience of living in a very lovable joined family. Still my inner voice echoes me to turn on the days where no ego and no mess ups. Unfortunately everything had fall and yet not left a dot to join back into those connection of love and understanding. Still at a age, we donot know well about outer world and people around. We use to express unexpectedly into all the circumstance. Yet days with all my uncle, aunt and cousins are unerased characters. But a day came fall into my day to learn about them. I cannot complain them but can think why happened so? Better not to make fall in an another chance. It was my engagement. All my relatives were there to the function. As every girl I too a girl with unknown answers in marrige and relationship. My parents were busy in all arrangements and to invite people during function. I was getting ready wearing silk saree and jewels. There came one of my uncle with a neck chain asking my mother to wear it for me and to return it back after the engagement ceremony. But I was already ready for the formalities with my fathers collections and one of my chithi's' ornaments which she brought for me during the function. My amma said that I was wearing and thats' enough for that day. He compelled and asked me to wear it. I donot want to make him bad and I got and used it. Slowly as the minutes passed on the ceremony was done with lots of love and blessings. Could find people were turning back after lunch. Most of the relatives came forward and blessed me. Finally remained family people in the hall and waiting for a right time to move back to home. I was standing aside near my cousins. Immediately it happen to notice one of my cousin was non verbally conversing with my uncle's daughter-in-law about the neck chain which he gave me to wore by morning for the function. Unexpectedly my cousin also found that I noticed her and she felt figureless and smiled at me. I was quietly sitting on the same spot. Genuine is my uncle's daughter-in-law felt guilt on my cousin's attitude and she asked sorry to me. I said no worries. Thing is still they are very affectionate. One who gave support donot have any issue. Only the influence has remark over years in everyone's life. My cousin didn't left immediately. She stayed with me for three days. Literally after receiving all her reports on marrige she moved back to her town. Some times we can make contaminated during right schedules in a function mode. Better could keep these type of influenced characters to contaminate until a good ceremony has done in a girls life. My cousin too a single girl child to her parents. She had not under gone any issues because all the elders were there to hold her strong to feed her at all needs. Nothing got spoiled due to cousin's action. But it should not hurt a mind and hardship of a parent is to be meant here. Atleast, if a minute she think that she was doing against her own blood, she never would have done that. It was just a small incident, I learnt. But it had hurted and denoted a new face of my blood staying along with me. I found very difficult to accompany her for many days. Later it became normal and nowadays its very smoothly stepping on. Dear readers, kindly don't even imagine to have a back bite on other hearts were a girl happens to see one who is against a girl cannot be acceptable. It takes time to bare it. Also travelling with the same character is very hard to survey more than leaving. I donot want to loose my blood relation in the name of that act. Though its painy. More than that learned a human mind is true among us. A human character be a mind of love an hold. Minutes let to stay positively and to stop surveying. Even not supporting better not disturb. No materials are going to connect minds. Materially being relationship is waste of digging soil to plant out of wet land. Be a wet land to develop minds.
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