Every individual once was a graduation student. It was experienced in various manner and responsibilities as a student and as a child to their parents. When I was starting my graduation, it's very new for me to travel in bus alone. I joined one of my neighbour friend to accompany to my institution. She is one year senior to my batch, one who comforted me in all the manner as a sister. Thank God for reminding her till. I called her 'Akka' after her name always. The previous day of college opening, I met and intimated her to take me along while she move to the institution. I am a pampered child till finish my schooling. My parents had not send me anywhere alone. Wherever to go they use to arrange vehicle or take along. This time, its very new for me being alone a travel in bus. I remember akka had made me very much protected where it's a co-education institution. She asked me to be alert and careful because ragging was very common during our period. But till I complete my studies in that college I was not gone under any ragging. Akka roamed here and there to find my batch students and to make me to join with them. At the end she found a girl of my subject department and asked her to keep along. The girl replied yes to akka. But she was with an another girl who was her tutorial mate one who had joined in the same instituion in 'Physics' department. Both had met after some days and so they were busy in their playful conversation. Inbetween I was there with them was unable to notice from their side. Their conversation went deep into different topics. They didn't interact with me. Every time we have a habit of first impression to frame inspired. But in my case, it increased my fright because I couldnot find other individual there to accompany. Time was running and I was scared inside which I didn't express. Minutes ran...... I felt like to move back to home and to quit the day from that crowd of students inside the campus. My eyes rotated in search of akka. Its blessed, some one pat on my back, while turning I found akka was there to me. She said, I thought of you were not comfort here. She continued am I right? I couldn't control my tears. Still I can feel my palms tightly holded akka's hands saying need to be back home. My thoughts ran like isolated individual among a big crowd. The other two girls who stood near me stunned seeing me bursting in tears to akka. Every student experience a memory on first day to higher studies. But in my life I use to recall this incident which later I came to understand that it's a message of God denoting that I have to survey alone in that institution and not to accompany anyone. After that scene both the girls came and introduced them to me. Akka was there to join me till to the class room. But 'I told, no akka, as I think you neared me is gifted. Let me join them and let you to your session'. In half minded, akka asked me to assure whether I could continue my walk with the girls? I assured her, yes!!! And then it happened to join them and moved on to my class room. There started my day but its not morethan six months I left the girl of my department one who was there from me the first day. Yet I remember the day where I cried out of my pampering growth. Just to understand that our mind always insist us the right for us. But we use to miss the thoughts to understand intellectually. Let my part remind the readers to join an individual if you find someone standing alone on your way in search of their road. Just stop there and map them their direction rightly. It will be remembered and will be there on you as I did in my blog a day. Kindly teach your children also to be a palm holder of someone and to express it to somebody to do the same action.
I met akka after years before two years in the school as a parent where I am working at present. Once again my thanks to God for having her in my life as a strength provoker. My prayers for akka and family. Dear Readers, do insist your children and known people to hold on others palms in needed spot to make them feel comfort positively.
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